MEDIA & ARTICLES
Grit & The Grace
The REAL Change Grit and Grace celebrates transformative change, designed to support individuals navigating life’s complex challenges with clarity, resilience, and purpose.
We talk a lot about how trauma teaches the nervous system to recognize danger. But what about safety? Emerging research suggests that reducing fear and learning to recognize safety may not be the same thing. Perhaps healing isn't only about quieting the alarm. It may also be about learning to notice the safety signals that have been there all along.
In an increasingly polarized world, empathy may depend on more than communication skills. It may depend on our ability to tolerate uncertainty. Exploring psychology, identity, and human connection, this article examines the hidden relationship between uncertainty resilience and compassion.
Humans are wired to find patterns even when none exist. Our brains crave meaning, reward us with dopamine when we “connect the dots,” and prefer tidy stories over uncertainty. That’s why conspiracy theories feel so satisfying. Conspiracies simplify chaos, assign villains, and affirm belonging. But when we seek certainty over evidence, our detective minds turn into storytellers. Real wisdom lies not in rejecting patterns, but in questioning them by asking, “What else could be true?”
Interviews
Aleka’s interviews highlight her expertise in integrating authenticity and strategic insight into her work, demonstrating how she empowers individuals and businesses to achieve their true potential and stand out in their fields.
Want to know more about parts work? I am honored to be featured on Shauna VanBogart’s amazing podcast, ‘Just being’. Together we dive into the transformative and often intimidating world of our inner parts and how to navigate the terrain.
Self – Love is such a buzz word in the self help world, but how do we actually DO it? In this video we go deep into the REAL nuts and bolts to loving yourself.
“What’s my purpose?” It’s a question I get asked ALL the time. It is an important question to contemplate on a path of living an inspired life. In this video we define just what purpose is and how to connect with yours.
Astrology
New Moons and Full Moons and everything in between.
The Virgo New Moon invites us to lay the cards on the table and work honestly with what is. As Uranus stations retrograde in Gemini, new information may challenge old assumptions and ask us to rethink what we thought we knew. This is not a call for perfection, but for humility, discernment, and the courage to let reality change us.
The August 28 Pisces Lunar Eclipse brings us to the edge of what can be known and controlled. As the final Pisces eclipse in a cycle that began in 2024, it explores surrender, uncertainty, and the wisdom of living the questions-reminding us that sometimes the path only becomes visible once we begin walking it.
The August 12, 2026 Leo Solar Eclipse marks the beginning of a powerful new chapter. This South Node eclipse invites us to release outdated identities, reconnect with the heart, and create space for greater authenticity, joy, and purpose. Explore the symbolism of this new Leo–Aquarius eclipse cycle, plus house-by-house guidance for working with its energy over the next six months.