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Grit & The Grace

The REAL Change Grit and Grace celebrates transformative change, designed to support individuals navigating life’s complex challenges with clarity, resilience, and purpose.

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Why We Love a Good Conspiracy Theory
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Why We Love a Good Conspiracy Theory
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Humans are wired to find patterns even when none exist. Our brains crave meaning, reward us with dopamine when we “connect the dots,” and prefer tidy stories over uncertainty. That’s why conspiracy theories feel so satisfying. Conspiracies simplify chaos, assign villains, and affirm belonging. But when we seek certainty over evidence, our detective minds turn into storytellers. Real wisdom lies not in rejecting patterns, but in questioning them by asking, “What else could be true?”

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In the Gap
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In the Gap
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We humans spend much of life keeping uncertainty at bay through habits, biases, and identities that steady us. Yet, uncertainty is not just a threat, it’s also an opening. The brain’s prediction errors make us vigilant, but they also prime us for learning. By cultivating identity complexity, humility, and curiosity, we transform uncertainty from something to fear into an invitation to grow, connect, and imagine new possibilities.

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Let's Talk About Invisible Illness
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Let's Talk About Invisible Illness
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Invisible Illness Is Still Illness

Conditions like Long COVID, ME/CFS, and autoimmune diseases may not show on the outside—but they’re real, exhausting, and often isolating.

You don’t need to have all the answers. Just believe, listen, and lead with empathy.

It makes more difference than you know.

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Interviews

Aleka’s interviews highlight her expertise in integrating authenticity and strategic insight into her work, demonstrating how she empowers individuals and businesses to achieve their true potential and stand out in their fields.

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Just Being Seen On The Inside
Just Being Seen On The Inside

Want to know more about parts work? I am honored to be featured on Shauna VanBogart’s amazing podcast, ‘Just being’. Together we dive into the transformative and often intimidating world of our inner parts and how to navigate the terrain.

How To Really Love Yourself
How To Really Love Yourself

Self – Love is such a buzz word in the self help world, but how do we actually DO it? In this video we go deep into the REAL nuts and bolts to loving yourself.

What’s my purpose?
What’s my purpose?

“What’s my purpose?” It’s a question I get asked ALL the time. It is an important question to contemplate on a path of living an inspired life. In this video we define just what purpose is and how to connect with yours.

Astrology

New Moons and Full Moons and everything in between.

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Sagittarius New Moon 12/19/25
Sagittarius New Moon 12/19/25

This Sagittarius New Moon marks a powerful threshold between the endings of 2025 and the beginnings of 2026. In this in-between space, uncertainty becomes both teacher and catalyst. With the Sun and Moon aligned with the Galactic Center, illusion dissolves and truth amplifies, revealing what’s authentic and asking us to participate in our becoming. This is a moment of clarity, courage, and radical accountability. This new moon is an invitation to co-create with life, meet reality honestly, and choose the beliefs and actions that expand who we are becoming.

Gemini Full Moon 12/4/25
Gemini Full Moon 12/4/25

This Gemini Full Moon illuminates a crossroads of truth. New surprising, clarifying, or disruptive information may surface. Amidst this new information, we will be urged to stay open and choose growth over repetition. With a grand cross activating the lunar nodes, we’re asked to meet reality with humility, vision, and courage. What emerges now becomes guidance, and how we respond shapes the path ahead.

Scorpio New Moon 11/20/25
Scorpio New Moon 11/20/25

The Scorpio New Moon brings powerful emotional tides, urging honesty, release, and transformation. With Uranus shaking loose old foundations and water signs amplifying sensitivity, this is a moment to discern truth from comfort. Let go of what can’t come with you. Choose communities rooted in integrity over conformity. When revelation arrives, it may be uncomfortable—but it’s real. And in Scorpio season, reality is sacred.